{"id":33715,"date":"2023-02-26T12:07:22","date_gmt":"2023-02-26T17:07:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/theromcomcatalog.com\/staging\/?p=33715"},"modified":"2026-05-06T11:13:09","modified_gmt":"2026-05-06T15:13:09","slug":"review-your-place-or-mine-2023","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theromcomcatalog.com\/staging\/review-your-place-or-mine-2023\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Your Place or Mine&#8217; (2023) Review"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When Los Angeles-based Debbie needs to take a course in New York to finish her degree and advance her career, her best friend &#8211; and one-time hook-up &#8211; Peter agrees to give her his place in the city for a week while he travels to L.A. to watch her teenage son. While the two get a taste of a different life, they realize what they&#8217;ve been missing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is <strong>Reese Witherspoon<\/strong> and <strong>Ashton Kutcher&#8217;s<\/strong> return to romantic comedies after what feels like forever. Reese&#8217;s last rom-com was 2017&#8217;s <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.themoviedb.org\/movie\/427900-home-again?language=en-US\">Home Again<\/a><\/em>, while Ashton hasn&#8217;t appeared in the genre since 2011&#8217;s <em><a href=\"https:\/\/theromcomcatalog.com\/staging\/new-years-eve-2011\/\">New Year&#8217;s Eve<\/a><\/em>. I was very excited to hear that they partnered for Netflix&#8217;s&nbsp;<em>Your Place or Mine,<\/em>&nbsp;since we can all admit&nbsp;they&#8217;re two of the genre&#8217;s most notable actors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The movie has a very 2000s rom-com feel, which may have been the point. This may or may not please moviegoers, but I enjoyed it because I personally believe the genre peaked in the late 90s and early 2000s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Writer-Director Aline Brosh McKenna is not a stranger to this genre either, having written plenty of rom-coms herself, including <em>27 Dresses<\/em>, <em>The Devil Wears Prada<\/em>,<em> Laws of Attraction<\/em>, and <em>Three to Tango<\/em>. <em>Your Place or Mine<\/em> lands somewhere in the middle of those films in terms of quality. Again, that&#8217;s not necessarily a bad thing. <em>Your Place or Mine<\/em> has plenty going for it &#8211; its star power, dedication to The Cars-based soundtrack, and above-average execution of various genre tropes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Playing the <em>Sleepless in Seattle <\/em>card was a gamble, in which the two leads don&#8217;t share much screen time until the end of the film (and the very beginning). But unlike <em>Sleepless in Seattle<\/em>, Debbie and Peter communicate via FaceTime and text messages. It works fine here, but makes gauging Debbie and Peter&#8217;s chemistry somewhat tricky. Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks had you rooting for them without ever saying a word to one another before they met (other than &#8216;<em>Hello<\/em>&#8216;), but Reese and Ashton are not anywhere near the rom-com tier of Meg and Tom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Your Place or Mine<\/em> is a fine rom-com. I found it sweet and entertaining, though I think more could have been done with the romance. It felt like the movie focused more on Peter and Debbie&#8217;s personal journeys than their journey together. I will give a shout-out to the supporting cast: Steve Zahn, Tig Notaro, and Zoe Chao, all of whom brought their own comedic flavor to the movie. 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