{"id":34099,"date":"2023-03-12T12:24:08","date_gmt":"2023-03-12T16:24:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/theromcomcatalog.com\/staging\/?p=34099"},"modified":"2026-04-23T09:51:31","modified_gmt":"2026-04-23T13:51:31","slug":"review-my-life-in-ruins-2009","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theromcomcatalog.com\/staging\/review-my-life-in-ruins-2009\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;My Life in Ruins&#8217; (2009) Review"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Georgia (<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/theromcomcatalog.com\/staging\/tag\/nia-vardalos\/\" data-type=\"post_tag\" data-id=\"1541\">Nia Vardalos<\/a><\/strong>) is a teacher in Greece who works as a tour guide until she finds a new job after being laid off. She avoids all the fun, touristy things, making her tour groups think she&#8217;s boring. Feeling disenchanted with her job and her life, Georgia decides to move back to the United States, and that her next group will be her last.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her last tour group is a ragtag group of misfits. They&#8217;re demanding, obnoxious, and occasionally rude. At least, that&#8217;s how Georgia sees them. Their bus driver, Poupi, can&#8217;t speak English &#8211; allegedly &#8211; and Georgia quickly finds the end of her rope, treating the group with contempt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But it doesn&#8217;t take long for Georgia to realize that perhaps <em>she&#8217;s <\/em>the problem. She gets some help from a widower named Irv (<strong>Richard Dreyfuss<\/strong>), who opens her eyes to how beautiful her life is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I really, really enjoyed <a href=\"https:\/\/theromcomcatalog.com\/staging\/my-big-fat-greek-wedding-2002\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"1839\"><em>My Big Fat Greek Wedding<\/em><\/a>, but it took me a long time to get around to watching this Vardalos vehicle. I&#8230; did not miss out on much. This felt like a completely different Nia Vardalos than the one who wrote the highest-grossing romantic comedy ever. Gone is the adorkable heroine, replaced by someone far less charming. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I do not get the impression that Georgia is <em>supposed<\/em> to be unlikeable, but she is. Even when she relaxes, there is just something missing there. I read that Vardalos completed some rewrites for <em>My Life in Ruins<\/em>, initially written by Mike Reiss, but I honestly couldn&#8217;t tell. There&#8217;s no Vardalos magic here. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I can&#8217;t say much about the romantic aspect of this rom-com. <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/name\/nm1096845\/\">Alexis Georgoulis<\/a><\/strong> plays Poupi, who is drawn to Georgia &#8211; for reasons I couldn&#8217;t quite understand &#8211; and yes, they share a few sweet moments, but ultimately, the romance feels as though it&#8217;s obligatory rather than something that comes naturally. If you took the romantic angle from the movie, it still works as an ensemble dramedy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The bright spot of the movie is Vardalos&#8217;s scenes with Richard Dreyfuss. 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