You’ve Got Mail Synopsis: Two business rivals who despise each other in real life unwittingly fall in love over the Internet.


When a mega-chain superstore, Fox Books, begins building around the corner from her independently owned children’s bookstore, Kathleen Kelly (Meg Ryan) goes on the offensive to save her livelihood, going toe to toe with Joe Fox (Tom Hanks), who is in charge of the build. At odds professionally, the two snipe and bicker with each other, unaware that they’re also each other’s anonymous online pen pal with whom they’ve struck up an intimate friendship.

You’ve Got Mail is a modernized remake of the Jimmy Stewart, Margaret Sullavan classic, The Shop Around the Corner (which is also the name of Kathleen’s bookstore as a nod to the original film). I feel like Nora Ephron nailed it by casting Hanks as Joe Fox, especially given the constant comparisons between him and Jimmy Stewart.

Hanks possesses the right kind of nice guy charm that keeps Joe Fox from being an intolerable, apathetic jerk. Meg Ryan, as always, is charming and adorable as Kathleen. but also finds a much-needed backbone when she finally decides to ‘go to the mattresses’ and fight Fox Books to try and save her store.

The movie is quite obviously dated now, as there is no more dial-up (the AOL dial-tone still makes me shudder with bad memories to this day!), and most people converse through social media rather than chat rooms. I’m not even sure how easy it would be to have an anonymous online pen pal anymore, given how visible we all are on the internet; it probably wouldn’t take much to track down someone’s profile, whether you mean to or not.

In any case, I feel like You’ve Got Mail still holds up in the romance department. Ephron’s script (written with her sister, and playwright, Delia Ephron) is romantic and warm and also lends to some witty banter between the two leads that Hanks and Ryan deliver perfectly without missing a beat.

In a way, You’ve Got Mail also feels like something of a love letter to New York. We take the same journey with Joe and Kathleen, from fall through winter and into spring, and every shot of the changing seasons is beautifully captured, feeling as romantic as the online relationship itself.

I wanted to visit The Shop Around the Corner, along with Fox Books and the cozy little cafe where Joe finally realizes that Kathleen is in fact, Shopgirl (her online screen name). It felt like they were living in a different world. Obviously, this was merely a fantasy of what it would be like to actually live in New York (and only if you had the money for a fantastic apartment in a nice neighborhood). Still, Ephron does a marvelous job at capturing the city’s magical energy.

You’ve Got Mail’s supporting characters are funny and full of personality, whereas many secondary characters in these movies tend to feel wooden and one-dimensional. Greg Kinnear and Parker Posey play Frank and Patricia, Kathleen and Joe’s respective significant others at the time of their ongoing correspondence. There are obviously some questions here about infidelity. Still, it’s slightly glossed over as you see Frank (who is somewhat bland but thankfully not a jerk) flirting with a journalist on television. Patricia is so self-absorbed and shallow that you’re not likely to feel too bad for her when Joe inevitably ends their relationship.

Kathleen’s employees, Jean Stapleton, Heather Burns, and Steve Zahn, all have their moments and one-liners, though I wish they had used Zahn a bit more, as I feel he’s a bit underrated as a comedic actor. And, of course, Dave Chappelle as Joe’s employee and friend, Kevin. Kevin doesn’t really have much to do here but play Joe’s confidante, but Chappelle takes what he does have and makes it pretty memorable.

Beyond the snarky banter between Joe and Kathleen, my favorite part of You’ve Got Mail occurs after Joe realizes he wants to be with Kathleen. He’s aware that Kathleen is Shopgirl, but she has no clue he’s actually NY152, and he plays her confidante as they become friends and she tells him about her online friendship/romance, which Joe uses to his advantage (yes, I feel like this could have been manipulative but there is no malice behind his intentions).

The film’s ending is light, as the two become actual friends and Kathleen begins to struggle with her feelings for Joe while still wanting to meet NY152. Ryan and Hanks’s chemistry has stayed consistently charming since Joe Versus the Volcano, and even if they never film another romantic comedy together, I’ll be more than satisfied with You’ve Got Mail finishing off the ‘Hanks and Ryan Trilogy’ of romance.

Watched: 03/30/2019
Notable Song: Somewhere Over the Rainbow by Harry Nilsson

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7 Comments
  • Often Off Topic
    April 1, 2019

    It's so funny how dated this movie feels now! I wonder if in the future they'll remake it again with some new form of technology?

  • Sara
    April 1, 2019

    That would be interesting! I love that in The Shop Around the Corner they're writing letters, and here it's email. I would love to see how they could update and modernize a new remake tbh.

  • sati (harlequinade)
    April 2, 2019

    I actually like how dated the movie is – it's like a trip to Simpler and better times. It's such a shame the second Meg Ryan got a bit older Hollywood had no work for her :/

  • Sara
    April 2, 2019

    My husband sat down and watched this with me on Saturday and said something pretty similar… that he was kind of bummed that this movie wouldn't have been able to be made in the same manner today.

    I totally agree on Meg Ryan. I think the last thing I saw her in was In the Cut.

  • KatyRochelle
    April 5, 2019

    Wonderful review! You've Got Mail is one of my favorite movies. Everything about it just radiates charm, especially Nora's writing and direction. I don't think a day goes by where at least one quote or moment doesn't pop into my head.

  • Sara
    April 7, 2019

    Yes! Every now and then when I hear the name 'Joe', I think "Joe? Just call me Joe?" It's so quotable. Nora Ephron was one of my favorite writers. I'm so sad she's gone.